Remember Snail Mail?
Buy (or make) a sweet and simple card. Write a sentence or two about what he means to you…just because…and MAIL it… everyone loves mail, and everyone loves sweet reminders!
Simple Pleasures
Rub your partner’s feet when he/she is really tired at the end of the day.
Special Surprises
One of the most romantic things you can do is to make your partner a special surprise. Fill the room full of candles. It’s very romantic!
I’d Like To Have…
Pick one day a week to call your partner and ask him/her what she would like you to bring home, eg: hugs, kisses, or even a massage.
It’s The Little Things..
A little token or two to show how much you care is always appreciated. If he’s sick, bring him hot soup. If he’s upset, bring him flowers… spend some time with him.
Notebook of Ideas
If you don’t have the time or energy to try all of these things, then make a note of your favorites, and keep up the notebook by writing some of your own. Refer back to this notebook when you have the time.
Open Your Heart
Often the greatest way to show your love is by giving someone your trust. Open up and tell your mate something about you that no one else knows. It’s a sure fire way to let them know how special they are and how much they mean to you.
Pampering Your Partner
Every day, one of you can do something to pamper the other one. Facials, pedicures, massages, a hot meal, a bath… it doesn’t matter!!! It will keep you close and you will find it very relaxing to take care of each other. Give it a try…it does wonders in the bedroom too!!
Pay Attention
The best way that I have found to show that you love that person is to pay attention to what they tell you. It’s a very easy thing to do but it is often overshadowed by personal thoughts or wants.
Praise Your Mate
Tell him/her that they are the best. Kiss often and comfort each other by holding each other… anywhere.
Pull Each Other Close
Just because it feels good.
A Time To Hold
The best thing to do is to fall asleep in someone’s arms and to wake up there knowing that you were held all night long by someone you love… It doesn’t have to be anything beyond cuddling.
A Cheap Date
Pack a picnic basket and head to the closest rest stop. You won’t believe how romantic and memorable this can be.
A Touch Is Worth A Thousand Words
Caress, cuddle and massage your way into your partner’s heart.
Act Like A Kid Again
It is fun to act like a kid again, you and your mate can go for a walk to the park after dark, or go to an indoor amusement park and have a blast.
Random Gifts
Everyone loves receiving gifts, especially if they’re unexpected, no matter how big or small – anything will do!
Remain Playful
There’s nothing wrong with having a little fun sometimes. It keeps us young. When was the last time you and your partner played hide and seek in your backyard?
A Sweet Dream
Tell them “Sweet dreams.” before you hang up the phone. It does wonders.
I Love You Too
Don’t forget the words do have meaning, let your partner know you love him/her.
Just The Two Of Us
Take your loved one to a place away from the hustle and bustle of town life. Take a blanket and place it under the trees lie and cuddle the entire afternoon and then watch the moon rise from behind a mountain, and remember how special the person you are with is!
Kiss A Day
Kiss your life partner daily before you go to sleep even if your terms not good. If you are unable to kiss today tomorrow you give two.
100 Reasons
Write on paper every single reason that you can think of why you love him or her. Try to come up with at least 100.
Two Truths and a Lie
On your first date, tell your partner three things, make one of them a lie. Then let them spend the rest of the evening asking questions to figure out which one isn’t true. It’s really fun and a great way to get to know each other.
A Gesture Every Day
Don’t let a day go by without letting your partner know you’re thinking about them. A short note written on a post-it is simple and let’s them know how you feel.
Quality Not Quantity
Sometimes it’s hard to find quality time together and get to bed at a reasonable hour. What you can try to do at night is light some candles in the living room, lie down on opposite sides of the couch, and just share about your day. What a great way to relax and catch up.
Rainy Day
Dance with your honey in the middle of the street in the rain. This is what memories are made of.
Dr. Arlene Krieger – Relationship Therapy Services
Dr. Krieger will develop a personal treatment plan for your concerns and issues to gain focus for your future life goals within a shorter time frame than most other mental health therapies.
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